Families break when we treat love like a makeover project. The urge to rewrite a parent’s habits or a child’s personality is strong. It also fails. My stance is simple: trade control for connection.

Billy, Abigail's husband, is not a good listener. He frequently asks their children the same questions, and forgets what they’ve already told him. In the midst of conversations, he often says things ...

Trying to change your partner usually starts with good intentions. You want things to feel easier, healthier, or more aligned. Over time, though, it can turn into frustration, quiet resentment, and a ...